he wronged her six years before she could speak of it, giving her the choice of two evils
1 leave, or
2 agree to be thingified by a sneering mob
it wasn't funny then, and he's begun paying for it now
# She Too, Dec/2022, Cpp
I reported the incident to the top organizer (who was of course Jon Kalb) the following week after a local C++ meeting. He laughed and told me I had thick skin and should simply ignore it. I did as instructed because a man in power told me to. 6/