Women are like cats.
Yes, sexually. Hence Catwoman and Natalie Dormer.
But also like a car, so much more in that, if you are blessed to see her sleeping next to you, a smile on her face, you know the most important thing there is this side of heaven:
She feels safe.
Men need someone in their life to dote on. Especially as we get older. It's a necessary instinct, possibly our version of being maternal. You can feel its absence in your body when you want to cherish someone and there's no one there.
We often mistake this for sexual attraction, because we lack the internal discernment. This is especially true for younger guys, but there are a lot of older men in age gap relationships that are misreading it too.
Listen boys, you don't actually want to get in bed with most women. Most of them, you just want to see looking pretty in something that you bought them, or to cook them something they love, or to see them safe and asleep on a little couch by a sunlit window. You want to gently touch their shoulder blades and ask them what they're reading. You just need to dote.