It would be easier for them to accept this if society gave them literally anyfuckingthing for being expendable.
Right now, society (which means you) treats (White) men like we are here to pay everyone else to lay around complaining, and in exchange, we get called rapists and told that our problems are fake and we deserve even less.
The exchange is supposed to be that men are expendable, but we're in charge and we get respect as long as we contribute something.
But then you decided that we don't deserve respect and that we have to contribute while random somalians and haitians live on welfare that we pay for.
So given that reality, it's not nice to tell us we're expendable. You're basically saying:
"(White) men are here to work and die so that illiterate somalians can have 13 kids on welfare and rape the woman you would have married if we let you have a job."
Maybe learn what time it is.