That's naive, real men care about a woman's past because it shapes her and affects how the relationship Works.
Ignoring the past entirely is reckless, lessons from previous experiences matter if you want a healthy relationship.
You're absolutely right on this.
Friend of mine fell in love with this one girl who used to be in a Neo-Nazi group that burned down several Synagogues.
She still hated everybody that wasn't "white", but that was in her past.
Real men don’t care about her past if she’s left it there. But if her past still lives in her habits, her mindset, or her phone contacts.. he is not a fool, he is gone.
Go in a room with 20 strangers and a can of Pepsi. Pass that can around to the 20 people. You would still drink it..
Now pass it to those same 20 people and let them all dip their finger in the can.. would you still drink it??
This is a narcissist and gaslighting comment. Which most women like to use towards men to belittle them in any way they can. “Oh don’t worry about the red flags it’s fine” two months after marriage. “ I’m just not happy, you don’t love me. John cares about my feelings you don’t”
