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If you are having trouble dating girls, ask yourself these 10 questions:
1. Do you have a strong mission, purpose, direction in life? Something that is more important or at least as important as having sex or getting a girlfriend. Do you have dreams and ambition for the future?
If you're a reactive guy, check yourself every time it happens...
Over time, train yourself to give less of a fuck till you outcome independant
Breathe deep, relax and be completely calm
Let her be nervous and jumpy around you
You are MORE important than her.
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All this is designed to communicate to a woman that she is just another person, and not anything special just because she’s hot and guys are chasing her.
or otherwise asking for compliance (“Hi, can you scoot down a little bit? Trying to get enough room that we can all sit down” while gesturing to your friends who need to sit).
Asking her to do you a favor (“Hey, can you do me a favor? Take a look over there & let me know if that girl in the sparkly purple dress is looking over here? That’s my ex but I’m hoping to avoid her tonight”)
Other ways to communicate to a beautiful woman that you aren’t wowed by her beauty are interrupting her to let someone else speak (“That’s very interesting but can you hold that thought? I wanted to hear what your friend had to say”)
When you tell her, “I like tall girls. Some men don't like tall girls b/c they have big feet, but I don't mind”
You’re doing something very different from the other 99% of men who are all around her drooling all over her.
A neg basically tells a woman, “This guy is so unimpressed by my beauty he is able to ask me these things that are almost slightly insulting about my appearance,” which no guy who is drooling over her is capable of doing.
However, when you get girls with big heads, who are running on an autopilot of “every guy who approaches me is chasing me because I look so good,” that’s when you need negs.
You should not use negs at all in many situations with women. If you’re in a place with a lot of gorgeous women and you meet a girl who’s not as dressed up and is in a more subdued mood, don’t neg her.
It’s designed to shake a girl out of the mode of thinking all she needs to do is stand around vetting suitors as they come, and into a mode where she needs to qualify herself to win this suitor’s approval.
and get them to realize you are not impressed by their mere beauty the way the other men pursuing them are.
That’s where simple negs like “Beauty is common. What’s rare is a great energy and outlook on life,” is one such tool.
Their brains just say “Men are chasing men like crazy, here’s another man, this man is chasing me too.”
What do you do with girls like this? You need pattern interrupts that will break them out of this mode
and you get thrown into this box automatically even if you’re more relaxed than 99% of the men around them. They simply are too awash in stimulation to examine you close enough to notice you’re chill.
That would work fine then. But when their attention is strained and they are surrounded by chasing men, they start taking the mental shortcut of simply assuming every man who approaches them is a chasing guy enamored with their beauty