A generation of women are realising that non-committal “forever boyfriends” are a very poor substitute for a husband and father of your children 👇

Nov 7, 2025 · 8:15 AM UTC

Pro-tip: save sex for marriage.
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@grok article please ?
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We, as a society, need to decide if women have agency or not. Because this is annoying. "Does he owe me compensation?" lol.
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Women are the gatekeepers of natural selection. Because female reproduction involves higher biological investment, women’s mate choices have influenced which male traits survive and thrive over generations. Much of male behaviour, consciously or not, has evolved in response to female selection criteria. Women have a natural duty to avoid choosing losers.
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
Never stay with a man who hasn’t proposed to you in a year [unless you’re in college] That’s not your husband
Replying to @LoisMcLatch
I'm glad women are waking up to this. You need to be getting married in your early 20s instead of thinking you can find a serious husband when you're a 32 year old, ran through girl boss.
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
Crazy idea- don’t sleep with a man until he makes a legal commitment to you and potential future children…
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
He owes you nothing he didn't promise you. The same is true the other way around, too, by the way.
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Coming soon, to a courthouse near you. New feminist laws that make you pay an ex girlfriend 'compensation'
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There is zero incentive for a man to marry in the West thanks to no-fault divorce and other insane feminist bullshit. Women brought this on themselves and must now deal with the consequences.
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Women are either adults with agency or they're not. There's no middle ground.
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It's evil to lie to a man about who the real father is.
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
I think the unstated belief in this message is that women can't really be held responsible for the choices they made when they were madly in love with someone (in this case the choice to not leave this guy). But we're all responsible for our choices.
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
From my experience, a lot of women don't want to settle down and get married. My ex-girlfriend and I were dating for a couple of years, I proposed (with a Tiffany's ring!), but she said that she loved me but wasn't ready to get married yet and wanted us to just keep dating. I told her that I loved her madly, but that neither one of us had that kind of time and she got very upset with me
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
A successful man (so, 30+) will have 20yo women vying for his ring for at least the next 25 years. Yeah. Be in a hurry, ladies. He still needs a wife and kids to be happy and fulfilled. And he knows it. If you don’t know this, it’s you who's not ready.
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
She can opt out of the relationship at any time if she's not getting what she wants Why are we shifting blame only to one side? Seems misandrist
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I mean you could just break up with him
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Say it with me now. "You-are-responsible-for-your-choices". There. That wasn't hard now, was it?
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Many such cases
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Well, at least they’re realising it!
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“I gave away my milk for free; why wouldn’t anyone buy me?” - the cow
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Accountability matters… YOU make your own choices, and those choices have consequences. You chose that person, so no one owes you anything for decisions you freely made.
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I know not all women think like this. But here is how many women think these days: “Women can make their own life decisions, until they end up making poor decisions, at which point it becomes a man’s responsibility.” If you offered yourself, voluntarily, during your childbearing years, to a man who was not willing to commit, you are responsible for that decision, and no one owes you any compensation for your own life choices. How hard is it to understand that?
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
Women who believe this are utterly useless and do, in fact, lack agency and personal accountability.
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That's a dude.
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I can't believe these people vote
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Lmao tryna make law’s to force high value men to marry them
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Translation: "My ex owed me a marriage, family and kids - which he failed to deliver on so I feel cheated." Women are gatekeepers to sex while men are gatekeepers to relationships. What baffles is is the amount of solipsistic women who actually rallied behind this post and shared the sentiment. Imagine a man making a post on how he missed out on billions of dollars because a woman rejected him or that his wife/girlfriend owes him sex, and became he didn't recieve sex and the 'ego boosting' (healing feminine grace as the oldies called it) from his crush/woman he ended up wasting so much of his lifeforce, energy, resources and youth seeking it elsewhere in various alternative forms to heal his broken heart! Let's see how well the very same counterargument around male entitlement to female body and sex for his investment of time, energy and resources into a woman would float. For all we know, we still haven't heard the boyfriends perspective on why he didn't put a ring on her and baby inside her! 🤣🤔🤷‍♂️
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
LAUGHING MY ASS OFF DUH. 😂😂😂
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He "stole" them or you gave them to him? No accountability.
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Anybody heard of the 2-year rule? If the relationship's not going somewhere within 2 years then it's up to you to ditch. Most things have an expiration date...
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
This is unfortunately true - unfortunately, I say, because it is precisely the wrong realization to come to when we Western women have been made the ultimate gatekeepers of our own reproduction. Because god forbid we actually take responsibility and have sincere discussions with our partners about our future.
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Replying to @LoisMcLatch
Really true a critical issue to educate young women about ; two issues a career and or an uncommitted other. Career you have to plan for and get others to help you and significant other you should state what you expect from the beginning of a serious relationship.
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Meanwhile, in reality:
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Buy me an expensive ring Buy me an expensive wedding I'm bored. Give me the house kids and your future income so you can't afford to be with anyone else. Every aspect of marriage is a toll on men, that takes away money and power in exchange for nothing. Where at any point a women is further incentivized to leave to get more from you and someone else. There's no reason for a man to get married today. I really really wish this wasn't the case.
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