77.8% of societies problems would be fixed if men & women only lost their virginities within marriages (don’t ask me for sources, I am the source)
Opening the floodgates to pre-marital relations has been a disaster
For individuals
For families
For communities
For nations
Once upon a time you had to work hard and be a man of honour in order to convince another man to allow you to marry his daughter - and that was the only way you could have sex, by marrying someone’s daughter. You had to swear to take care of her, provide for her, protect her, as her father passed the baton of guardianship to you
By extension You’d be more likely to not act dishonourably, because why would a man give you his daughter’s hand in marriage if you’re some honour-less delinquent?
Whereas now, you can be the biggest piece of scum and still get your rocks off with some 38% bodyfat mid who thinks she’s a Victoria secret model because of all the attention she gets from thirsty simps on Instagram
And if you can’t, then no worries, you’ll just watch 🌽
And as for women? Pre marital relations have been a disaster for them too
7 failed relationships and 12 bodies down the line, don’t you think a woman’s gonna be a bit jaded? All that baggage and bitterness she’s dragging around like a rottting carcas of all her bad decisions?
It’s turned relationships into transactions
It’s made intimacy meaningless and hollow
It’s warped the dynamics between the sexes
And its degraded the status of parenthood & marriage
Disastrous