Maybe is because the women we starved with, they are part of our trauma through our struggle 🥺😢😭

@grok explain this quote

Some of us get lucky and eat with the woman who believed we will make it big in life, who stuck with us during tough times and the struggle phase when we had nothing. Truly a privilege!

Success reveals character... The real win is honoring those who rode with you through the hard times, not chasing validation from people who only showed up for the glow up

And that’s why loyalty matters more than looks. Someone who believed in you when you had nothing will protect you when you have everything. It’s easy to find people who want to enjoy the rewards -- rare to find those who helped you build them. Never forget who stood beside you when you were still becoming someone.

I see it as enjoying those women we have always felt we deserve but never had. Than enjoying with them. It's usually an ego boost. Of course there are exceptions where the women we starved also with never give us the respect we feel we deserve after all the sacrifices.

Issue is most of us get married when we are financially stable So the wife don't understand what was the struggle you and your family been to get to this. They will say "why to save so much"

Is it men's failure if those same women refuse to stay when we're starving?

You're right, and i think that there are not a lot of women out there that are even close to deserving to be wives. Only those tht have been with you when you fought your way during hard times should be able to become wives, but i didnt see many of them, usually most of them are just fair-weather girlfrends, once trouble arrives they are gone with the wind. I dont think i ever saw a woman being a genuine team player, maybe some rare occasions, and i know only one - Connor McGregor's wife, she was there for him since he had nothing. But the fact that in my entire life i only gathered 1 example and that 1 example is because i saw it on the interent, should tell a lot about how rare a woman that genuinely loves and appreciates her man truely is.

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Absolutely nailed it brother

It's also true before the starvation. At least we are consistent. my friend once told me that he continues to love young women also after he got older, what does that make him? and what does it say about monks, or those who starved together but always was alone?

Future me 😂

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I mean you wouldn’t be able to pay for her meal..I definitely don’t agree with this post.. to each its own, but getting the “bag” first and or “bag momentum “ is definitely the best option before “dating”.

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95% of women won’t starve with a man, that’s the hard truth, women typically go after what will benefit them & won’t trust in the process. That’s why choose your woman carefully fellas, understand theirs a great likelihood of her just being in it for the money… restraint is key.

Wtf. This shit is too hilarious.😂

WHAT IF YOU STARVED ALONE⁉️

Totally disagree

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But there was no woman to starve to begin with

Never generalize situations………every story has its own context and every person their own struggle. Assumptions rarely reflect reality.🙏🏼

Hmmmmm can it be true?

Stay loyal to the ones who starved with you, they saw your grind when no one clapped. New faces love the crown, not the climb.

Bro 🥹

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It’s about leverage. He who has it, makes the rules. Having ample resources is the only way a Man can maintain any form of leverage. Once you’re achieved the desired leverage, you’re not interested in acting the way you did, when you didn’t have it. That’s cutting off your nose, to spite your face,, in theory. The point of freedom, is freedom. You may not want to make the same choice you made yesterday, because you feel different today.

That's living through your wishes

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Not me

Totally true. Guess we live in society we are expected to reward ourselves with woman for working our way up from starving. So women are being treated as reward not a partner of life and its struggle.

That is why I always say, "if u don't Till the soil with me as a woman, don't expect to get a place on my dining table"

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