I do not condone leaking private meetings. This person, no matter the content of the comment, deserved to be able to speak with the expectation that his remarks were private. Let’s assume he a made his remarks from a place of vulnerability and honesty.
He doesn’t feel comfortable attending a Shabbat dinner, and he’s worried that someone will interpret his absence as not supporting efforts to fight antisemitism. I don’t understand the discomfort or religious objection, but this is how he feels. An optional Shabbat dinner is not the only way to stand against antisemitism.
Evan is welcome to come stand with me at the Capital Jewish Museum to protest the antisemitism that took the life of an American girl from Kansas right near his office. She was about to be engaged to a young man, also murdered, who was a close friend and colleague of his Heritage coworkers. This is a perfectly acceptable way to show support. Attending the weddings of Jewish friends is another way to learn about the Jewish community, as is visiting the Bible Museum, the National Museum of Jewish American Military History, or the Holocaust Museum.
Evan Myers, who has been credited with helping write Kevin Roberts’ book and is reportedly involved in crafting his public statements, is said to have worked on the video Roberts filmed last Thursday with Ryan Neuhaus. He has also stated that his faith “prevents” him from attending a Shabbat dinner.