Physical abuse causes bruises. Psychological abuse causes psychological trauma. Literally brain damage. And just how abusive parents will say their child “fell down the stairs” etc, to cover up the bruises they caused, psychologically abusive parents will say their child “has an inherent mental disorder” to cover up the abuse trauma they cause. As a society, we really need to be able to identify the effects and patterns of psychological abuse as a red flag of child abuse just the same as seeing bruises all over a child would alarm us 🚩

Oct 31, 2025 · 3:26 PM UTC

Replying to @Ryan_Daigler
I have stitches on my left eye I got it before I was 18 mos old I got in the way of somebody else’s beating I don’t remember the beating but I remember being told to lie about how my head got split open I was told to say I fell for me it started before I could remember🙏🏼
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I had a dream about my mom making me clean her house as a kid and white gloving me the whole way. I'm mad at myself now for not standing up and screaming at her "Make my brother who's playing help out" and just running away.
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Maybe that’s what your dream was trying to make you feel
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Something is clearly lacking here. Namely, the fact that narcissists do absolutely everything for their perfect image to the outside world. Which makes all this even more perfidious. Experienced for themselves. How many times have I heard how ravishing and considerate the 1/2
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Trauma could also result from being bullied at school by a peer or teacher or from being ostracised by your peer group or from sexual assault or from being bullied online in any number of ways. But we should all definitely be more curious and querying about traumatised behaviour.
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That’s a crucial point. Psychological abuse often leaves invisible scars that are just as damaging as physical ones, yet society struggles to recognize it as readily. Increasing awareness about the signs and long-term effects is essential for protecting children’s mental health.
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Physical abuse leaves bruises. Psychological abuse rewires the brain. Both destroy. One just hides better.
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Yep, a church elder told me my brother was in hell for committing suicide, even though Martin Luther disagreed. The same elder said I was going to hell if I didn't agree with him. Dan Allender explains Three Core Effects of Trauma piped.video/pWwcsULqv_Y?si=Gxdi…
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I hated my grandmother because of the physical abuse she inflicted on me while growing up. She gave me an excuse that I was a “bad girl” and for not doing well in school.
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Yep they say you have psychological issues or learning issues like dyslexia. There does need to be a way for psychological/emotional abuse to be identified so those kids can get help too.
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Bruises fade but the mind remembers the hands that shaped them
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I literally know the physical & psychological abuse has altered my brain. I really want an MRI done but since I don’t have history of severe head trauma (parents never took me to the hospital) on file I suffer in silence. The bruises, the scars, the flashbacks are still there
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Because she drank So much...
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The parents don't know they are abusing the child psychologically. They believe their child has tantrums which others won't understand.
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I know a woman doing just this! She’s going down the ADHD and autism route with her 15 year old daughter after causing her years of trauma. Makes me sick! She’s been called out on it, but get abusive!
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Children deserve to be where they are loved and wanted.
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Not only children, but the current trend of malignant narcissist men abusing women verbally, psychologically and increasingly physically to the point of killing them is abhorrent. 😰
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I've heard physical or emotional/mental or sexual abuse all do the same thing to the brain but idk but yeah good point👍
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Yes. Agree
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Just before I was I was Hospital for a month as a 2.5yr old a week before I'd fell down the stairs (70s). I actually spoke and emailed with the GP and he transcribed his notes. He suspected abuse but couldn't prove anything. My mum was a psychopath and very pretty and charming
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What evidence is there that psychological trauma causes brain damage?