I know this question is gonna make me sound like a loser but how does one make friends (genuinely)

Nov 8, 2025 · 9:49 PM UTC

All the people I’ve ignored in dms probably thinking ‘reply to dms’… IM SORRYY talking 1 on 1 scares me
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Replying to @bunnymitaka
Appeal to emotion
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Please elaborate
Replying to @bunnymitaka
acquire an extroverted friend who will introduce you to all their friends
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can you introduce me to extroverted friend?
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Replying to @bunnymitaka
Be around people until you get comfortable talking to them
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ill try 🫡
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Replying to @bunnymitaka
Uni is a good place for it I suppose...maybe try to initiate a conversation by talking about something Uni-related and then switch to talking about interests and so on🙏
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i did find a lot of friends in uni, it's great tbh btw, you started your uni too now? how's it going? did you end up studying english?
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Replying to @bunnymitaka
You find common interest, then autism your way to being friends
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ah yeah autism, that's my strong point
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Replying to @bunnymitaka
saying this with asa pfp is iconic
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wait.... am I Asa?
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Replying to @bunnymitaka
All the other advice aside, if you struggle with social interactions, therapy might be a good first step. I struggled to form real friendships until I figured out some stuff in my group therapy sessions. Good luck to you!
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Thanks Mr Moriaty, i feel like you always understand me the best
Replying to @bunnymitaka
A lot of it does just come down to connecting with people through interests, etc, and then getting a conversation going
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I’ll try that 🫡 (hope I won’t mess it up)
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Replying to @bunnymitaka
Community is the key. Find a community. Discord works, IRL is better. Then put in the time. Show up, don't be shy, and chitchat. Your goal is to talk to lots of people. Eventually you'll find someone with a good personality. Focus on them, try to get to know them.
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I wanted to try this! Do you have tips for how to find discords? I only ever find links to the really big public ones, where the chat goes so fast you can’t form interactions
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Replying to @bunnymitaka
Depends on the people you want to be friends with and also what you think are your most advantageous traits
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Interesting, really need to look into what I bring to the table then 🤔