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i don't think people understand that heterophobia doesn't work in the same way that homophobia does.
there are countries where same sex marriage isn't even legal, places where being queer can literally get you imprisoned or killed. yet some of you are comparing this to straight people getting called a few mean names.
you don't have to come out to your parents as a straight person and fear the consequences if they don't accept you. you don't have to second guess holding your partner's hand in public and wonder if that'd be a safe idea.
homophobia is rooted in years and years of violence and exclusion