I was owing my wife 50k yesterday for something we needed at home that she had gotten with her money.
She asked me for the money later in the evening & I jokingly said, “Can’t you pay for it without me refunding you?”
Then she said in Yoruba, “You better don’t pray for such.”
What she meant was that I should never pray to be in a position where I lose my ability to provide as a man.
And I could understand her, it is not the duty of the woman to provide in the house, that is my sole responsibility and that is why provision is a man’s shield.
These days, only very few women hope & pray that their husbands continue to retain that ability to provide.
Some of them want a situation where the husband loses that ability and becomes subservient to them.
Pray you don’t get married to such a woman.
End.