“Women: If we’re going to ask and need men to sacrifice their inherent male nature by domesticating them because we need them to help raise children with us (a rightful and valid ask), then in return you need to let him run the world. Inside and outside the home. Women can’t keep chopping men’s balls in every domain.
Many women don’t realize that men claiming paternity over their children, helping nurture and raise them is BRAND NEW. For the vast majority of existence, this was not the MO.
Men need an outlet for HEALTHY domination. It’s not toxic. It’s maleness. Trust me, the consequence of castrating men is that you won’t want to f*ck them.
If we, women, are going to collectively require men to claim and provide for their children and be active in their lives and help out at home…Then we have to be ok with men leading homes, communities, and yes, governments. While women are born with their creational capacity (a womb), men are not, which means they often have to fight for and prove their role in society. They have to create it themselves and then impart or “thrust” it onto the world.
We sabotage this everytime we try to dismantle the patriarchy or complain he isn’t scrubbing enough dishes. Stop trying to womenize men. So much of the complaints I see women have about men is that he is not acting like her. He isn’t behaving how she would behave in XYZ scenario, and women have come to believe it is unacceptable at best and morally bankrupt at worst, when in reality it’s a difference in brain chemistry and hormonal make up. I know some will call me a male apologist (go ahead 🙄, but it’s CRUCIAL for women to understand men for so many reasons.
Study maleness. The male brain. Learn about male hormones. Let men be men-Chantel Q