I think the worst thing you could do to yourself is believe that there is room for someone to be more successful, better, more attractive, and what not. In your own world you SHOULD be the best person alive, no one and nothing can touch your confidence and much less phase it. Stop letting imaginary obstacles make your loa “journey” so hard. Theres never been and will never be obstacles with manifestation because you’re doing it 24/7 with NO fail.

deciding i didn’t want to be that girl anymore

smart people struggle to do thing that notoriously requires you to be a little fucking dumb to do

dating doesn’t benefit women, it drains them. stop entertaining half hearted men who only want temporary access to your time, body and energy. let them prove their worth through marriage, not meaningless situationships mending focus on yourself, secure your future, protect your energy

I had this problem for most of my adult life and then I realized the issue was that I wasn't as uncool and weird as I thought I was–I was just very enthusiastic and had low self esteem about the way I expressed myself. Everyone's different though, I hope you find your people!

Simple but brutal: “Well done is better than well said.” – Benjamin Franklin

How to unhex yourself / cleanse your field: • Move your body • Salt bath • Burn incense: Oud, Frankincense, Sandalwood • Clean your space • Pray or meditate • Cold shower • Write & burn what you want to release • Ground in nature • Sleep

The best advice I have for smart people trying to find their person is to be less analytical and cerebral about it and to lead with your heart . Literally, ask yourself when you’re around someone: is my heart smiling? Do I want to move closer to them? What do I want to ask them?

"Avoid the temptation of showing how clever you are, it is far more clever to conceal the mechanisms of your cleverness."

It’s wild when you realize you can have exactly the life you want if you are willing to create it

I find it funny that women who move through the world with a certain lightness of being are so often dismissed as unintelligent — called “airheads,” as if air weren’t the most cerebral, etheric, intellectual element of all. In truth, many of the archetypal “dumb blondes” like Marilyn Monroe or Pamela Anderson are anything but dumb. They’re highly perceptive, cerebral, curious, quick-witted, albeit a bit ungrounded.

love language

the easiest inner limitation to shed is to simply admit what you want and pursue it relentlessly

Can't stress enough how important this is. Your brain will rot if your sole media diet is tweets and short-form videos. You need to be reading daily. The consequences of a world in which no one has the sustained attention to read a book will be catastrophic.

love can be found anywhere