Inner change is a private ceremony. The world does not attend. It will not rearrange itself because you felt a revelation. Nothing around you shifts until you translate conviction into costs, until your new clarity becomes visible as different behavior.
Change the incentives. Alter what you tolerate, what you fund with time and attention, what you answer and what you ignore. Raise your price, rewrite your boundaries, move your routines. People and systems are obedient to friction and access. When the exchange becomes different, they will adapt or disappear.
If the inside changes, enforce it on the outside. Make your standards concrete, measurable, and costly to violate. Then the world will move, not because it respects your feelings, but because it must respect your terms.
-The Weaver of Woe
The world obeys leverage, not epiphanies.