I’m really glad to live in an era where heterosexual women are being unashamedly honest about their experiences with sex.
We don’t teach sex ed from a pleasure based standpoint. And religion amplifies fear and shame. The focus and topic of sex is often centered around reproduction. And that centers a man’s orgasm/penetrative sex.
It has nothing to do with clitoral stimulation, arousal or even desire.
Many women are waking up to the fact that being masturbated with simply isn’t enjoyable. And playing Russian roulette with your ph balance with condoms and lubricants, or fucking with your hormones just to escape pregnancy on behalf of a man’s orgasm is simply….not worth it. Especially if at the very least you aren’t even orgasming from the experience.
Many women are also learning about how expansive the sexuality spectrum is, and questioning if they even find men sexually attractive at all.
We’re witnessing women vocalize what so many of our mothers and grandmothers never could.
Of course men are having a conniption as a result. Let them, ignore them, and keep speaking your truth.
Men genuinely scare me bc why are you mad someone doesn’t enjoy penetrative sex?
Is it by force?