Anyone who's ever attained a huge desire knows that the first few weeks of striving are simply about burning off your needy energy
you'll push and strive and on week 2 day 4 when there's still not any results, you're like "wtf is going on, am I ever going to get this thing"
If that's where you are, there's only one thing to do:
Persist.
In month 3 when you're just doing the work out of habit and you've forgotten the angst of unfulfilled desire, that's when the desire starts coming to you
And you remember back to when you craved it and you realize it was that feeling that had to fade for it to arrive.