I’m having @astupple out to north Austin to discuss parenting. Two weeks from today. I am ~70% extremely sympathetic to what Aaron is doing, and 30% quite critical. So I cannot wait to talk. I expect to learn a lot. The topic: freedom in childhood. He wrote a book on it.

Oct 23, 2025 · 9:02 PM UTC

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Oh I’m so excited about this, I will be there
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He’s coming on @interintellect_ too 🥰💪😍👑
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ooo recording?
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very exciting, i find this topic fascinating
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i think you'll move to at least 80/20 after a big talk
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Wow what a discussion that will be
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please record this. not sure if I can fly out to Texas for a third time this month!
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This is the only explicitly parenting-focused book that has changed my opinions at all 10/10 would recommend
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Very important concept. My view is parenting should empower kids to manage themselves by the time they’re adults. Seems simple but there seems to be a lack of intentionality around that progression from many people
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Will this be broadcasted or put online later?
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Exciting! Please put it on YouTube or something
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@mbateman i'd love it you recorded something together. Side note - i'm sure you'd get a lot of interest if you had your own video podcast
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One of the questions I hope you guys discuss- is accelerating subject learning ultimately just like accelerating “learning to walk”, or “hitting puberty”? I’m sure it can be done, and data will show its effect, but does it make a difference in the long run if everyone gets there at some point anyway? If, hypothetically, you had a randomized group of kids, would life outcomes be different between those who were accelerated vs not? I acknowledge that this is an “ideal world” scenario, because in the real world being a couple grade levels ahead of your peers in school and college opens up many doors that would otherwise be shut, and you need to keep with the educational Joneses. But that raises the question of whether crackdowns on after school tutoring to “cool the market” will be necessary to get everyone out of the arms race for their own good. This “people learn at different rates, all we care about is the end point” was the philosophy adopted by my residency program, which @astupple might relate to. At the end of a few years, it didn’t make that much of a difference who learned things early vs later.
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Will this be a podcast?
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Oh my goodness, if this isn’t recorded and shared it would be a great disservice to the world! Please do! And have a grand time! ❤️‍🔥
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Exciting! Can you ask him to define sovereign? I don’t think he’s using it in a way that most people would define it.
Correct we have autonomy directly in proportion to our ability to make decisions. Adults have more than children. Children have more than infants. Only a select few are sovereign tho. The key may be defining the term - ‘supreme, ultimate authority to act’ with ‘providence’
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Ask him if humans can be creative at all? Then ask him about amalgamation. We’ll see how good his memory is from our philosophy lesson.
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This is going to be streamed or at least recorded right? Right?? 🙏