I wonder what pressures gen z to feel like they need to speed run vulnerability?
The intentions are always pure, I think it comes from a place like âI want to be close to you, I donât want to exchange surface level small talk.â
But, thereâs a level of vulnerability that can only be built with time, repetition, consistency⌠The type of vulnerability that comes from passing the tea and salt shaker across the dinner table a hundred times over.
Or maybe it comes from a pressure of not wanting to be perceived as boring or corporate. Not wanting to be walked away from a party whispering âthey only care about my jobâ or âugh only small talk,â I donât know.
Maybe itâs not a bad thing either :) but I think I need the small talk, the build up. Tell me about how sunny it is in SF and how much you love the trees, and Iâll listen. And then on our 10th time talking about the sun, maybe we can talk about when it rains, too.