lesson learned
you can be homophobic as long as you're polite about it and apologize like a saint.
Hello everyone.
I’m sorry for leaving this account without updates for the past few days. During that time, I spent a lot of it reading, observing, and trying to understand various perspectives shared by different people. I kept the replies open because I believe everyone has their own view, and there’s nothing wrong with sharing them respectfully. Among the many messages I received, I want to express my deepest gratitude to those who offered their support and kindness.
Regarding the main issue, I will continue to stand by my decision and have since updated my VGen Terms of Service. Moving forward, I’ll make sure to be more mindful and do thorough research before making any decisions.
I also want to thank those who showed concern for my well-being. Some people mentioned that I might have violated VGen’s ToS, so I personally reached out to the VGen team through email to clarify and apologize for bringing their platform’s name into this matter. The VGen team kindly responded, confirming that I’m allowed to decline client requests based on my personal boundaries and that it didn’t
violate Vgen ToS. I’m still active on VGen and will continue taking commissions. This time with clearer preparation, awareness, and professionalism.
And while this is social media, I truly hope everyone can be more mindful and take the time to verify information before making statements about things that haven’t been confirmed. There have been various forms of misinformation spreading about me, which unfortunately shift the focus away from the main issue, one of it being me having drawn porn or nsfw.
I don’t hold any resentment toward those who misunderstood or spoke out of confusion. I understand how quickly things can escalate online.
At the end of the day, I only wish for a healthy and respectful environment, where both artists and clients can communicate openly without fear of misinterpretation. I’ll keep striving to create art and build connections that reflect kindness and respect for everyone involved.
I’d also like to sincerely apologize regarding my recent WhatsApp status. No, I do not wish anyone to ever hurt themselves. The caption I wrote was: “I’ve had several moots saying this to me too. I hope anyone that jumped on me (by sending death threats) won’t do the same thing to anyone else.”
It was reckless on my part to upload it, and I understand how it could have been interpreted differently. It was never my intention to cause harm or distress to anyone, and I am genuinely sorry for the hurt or confusion it may have caused. I only wanted to express my hope that no one else experiences what I did, and that we all learn to treat each other with more understanding and respect. However, I realize now that my way of expressing it was inappropriate and unprofessional, and I take full responsibility for that mistake.
I hope this can serve as a reminder, both to myself and others, to be more mindful about what we share publicly, especially when emotions are high. Everyone deserves kindness and respect, even in disagreement.
Thank you to those who have spoken to me and helped me reflect on this matter. Your words have encouraged me to grow and become a more considerate person. I hope this will be the end of the discussion.
Moving onwards, I will always keep my head high to respect every religion, sexuality, and race. I also want to make it clear that I hold no hatred or discrimination toward queer people. I truly respect everyone for who they are.
With all due respect, I wish for everyone to not continue the conflict between queer and non-queer individuals that stemmed from my case. I truly hope this can be a moment for reflection and understanding, not division.