A Traditional Christian and Lover of Humanity.
Abia, Nigeria
Joined January 2012
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When truth is measured by noise, justice becomes blind in the wrong way. A calm man should not be punished for peace, nor should chaos be mistaken for care. Real fairness listens to facts, not feelings, and when emotion outweighs evidence, the system fails those who trust it most.
“I once sat in on a divorce hearing in Texas. The husband, a quiet accountant, presented spreadsheets, bank records, and a timeline of his wife’s spending sprees and infidelities. He spoke calmly, factually, without emotion. The wife screamed, sobbed, slammed her fist on the table, and claimed he “never loved her.”
The judge awarded her primary custody, alimony, and the house. His “lack of emotional expression,” the ruling stated, proved detachment. Her hysteria? “Passionate concern for the children.” Let me be clear: in the modern legal system,
men are punished for self-control, and women are rewarded for losing it. This isn’t justice. It’s emotional tyranny. And it’s baked into every institution—from courts to classrooms to boardrooms. The calm man is seen as cold. The hysterical woman is seen as passionate. The data doesn’t matter. The facts don’t matter. Only the performance of pain.””
Sometimes the seed that grows best must leave the shade to find its own sun. You learned that talent without politics often gets overlooked, but freedom rewards skill honestly. Walking away was not loss—it was discovery. Now you are proof that real value shines brightest outside the walls that once dimmed it.
My coworker got promoted over me.
He was worse at coding. Better at politics.
I wrote better code. Fixed more bugs. Shipped faster.
He talked in meetings. Took credit. Played the game.
He got the promotion. I got "keep up the good work".
That's when I realized: corporate rewards politics, not performance.
Six months later I quit. Started freelancing.
Now I make 3x his salary. No politics. No credit-stealing. Just solving problems and getting paid directly.
The best developers rarely get promoted. They get used.
Companies optimize for compliance and communication. Not competence.
If you're technically great but politically terrible, you'll never win at corporations.
Leave. Build your own thing. Get paid for your actual value.
Wisdom teaches a man to test his strength with sense, not with risk. The fire that warms can also burn, and a moment of proof may bring a lifetime of burden.
This is Nigeria😭😭
My dear friend Eucharia Remmi was shot on the head and killed in Yobe state while she was sharing Rhapsody of Reality near a police station during her NYSC in 2011. On that same day, 150 Christians were murdered in Yobe State.
Till today, nobody has been prosecuted. We prayed and cried heavily for Eucharia.
Thousands of people have lost their loved ones to senseless killings in Nigeria. Everywhere is unsafe. We need to end terrorism and kidnapping in Nigeria.
Donald Trump's declaration is the hand of God moving.
Nigeria needs to be safe again!
TYRANNY & CORRUPTION
Only a wicked man defends another wicked man. Only the corrupt protect the corrupt. A man’s choice of whom he defends reveals the mirror of his soul. If you see someone standing with oppressors, know that he is one of them in spirit.
#NoToTyranny #CorruptionKills #PowerAndTruth #StandForRight #SpeakTruth #ChangeBeginsWithUs
HOMELAND & INJUSTICE
The land, the sky, the rivers, the trees—all belong to the people. But a handful of greedy hands have stolen the homeland and call it their inheritance. The earth cries, the hungry groan, yet the thieves still toast to freedom. One day, the land will remember who truly owns it. #JusticeForThePeople #TakeBackOurLand #TruthToPower #Nigeria #StandForJustice #EndGreed
HYPOCRISY & TRUTH
If you do not remind a thief that he is a thief, he will soon stand on a stage and teach you how to be honest. When wrong people wear the mask of righteousness, truth becomes a stranger in the house. So speak up—silence gives liars courage. #TruthMatters #NoToHypocrisy #StayWoke #CourageToSpeak #RealityCheck
SACRIFICE & LEGACY
People who give everything they have for the poor and the weak may not wear crowns or sit in palaces, but their names are written in the hearts of the people. Long after they are gone, their kindness becomes a song on every street. That is the kind of wealth that never fades. #ForThePeople #LegacyLives #Compassion #HumanityFirst #DoGood #BeTheLight
CONSCIENCE & KARMA
When a man stops listening to his conscience, life itself will teach him a bitter lesson. The same days he thought were ordinary will rise like a storm and scatter his secrets to the wind. What he tried to hide will one day stand in the open light. #TruthWillOut #Karma #LifeLessons #Conscience #WakeUpCall #Wisdom
This is a clear case of medical bias. Sleep apnea can affect anyone, not just obese adults, and symptoms should be properly tested. Dismissing her concerns as anxiety and prescribing high-dose medication without evidence is unprofessional and harmful.
Yesterday, girlfriend asked me to come into a GPs appointment with her to witness the level of gaslighting she gets from doctors.
She reported standard symptoms of sleep apnea, and asked if there were tests for this.
He said it’s *impossible* to get sleep apnea if you are under 40 and not clinically obese.
Proceeded to say it she almost certainly just has an anxiety disorder (despite no anxiety symptoms during the day).
Then proceeded to prescribe her a relatively high dose of SSRIs and insisted she see a psychiatrist.
His whole tone throughout was of mild irritation at having to deal with her.
It honestly felt like being in some Victorian clinic and witnessing a woman with epilepsy being diagnosed with hysteria or something.
This is a superstition with no scientific basis. Sex does not block success; in fact, healthy sexual activity can reduce stress, improve focus, and support well-being. Success comes from effort and planning, not abstinence.
A tree that grows straight and tall may lose the shade of weak branches. Standing firm for yourself can cost some friends, but it also shows who truly values and respects you, and those are the ones worth keeping.
Money can buy many things, but a parent’s humor and love are priceless. Even when you speak of wealth, their way of showing care reminds you that joy and laughter are richer than any bag or account.
Every member has a place, and every absence speaks. Families thrive when each heart is valued and each role honored. Love never fails, and a united home strengthens more than just its members—it strengthens nations. In caring for one another, families plant seeds of hope, resilience, and lasting peace.
Conflict does not favor the poor or the rich; it touches all. Wealth may bring comfort, but it cannot shield hearts from misunderstanding or distance. Even those who seem well-to-do cry, for human bonds are fragile, and the measure of a family is not its gold but its care, patience, and understanding.
Strength lies in unity. A single stick can break, but a tied broom stands firm. Families that stand together can scale mountains, weather storms, and turn the impossible into reality. Looking out for one another is not a duty—it is the thread that weaves resilience into every home.